It’s been a while. If this blog feels a little different, that’s because it is. And I owe you an explanation. The truth is, I abandoned this blog. I abandoned blogging in general. I even abandoned the audience I’d built over the last decade. Somewhere along the lines, I lost my way. I forgot why … Read more
I’ve spent the last few years trying to “optimize” everything. My sleep, my diet, my morning routine, my deep work sessions. I had a system for the systems. I was basically trying to turn myself into a high-performance piece of software. But here’s the thing: the more I optimized, the more anxious I got. Every … Read more
I used to have a list. Not a to-do list, but a “fix-me” list. Somatic experiencing on Mondays, shadow-work on Wednesdays, and ancestral clearing if I had a bad weekend. I thought I was “doing the work.” I thought if I just found the right modality, I’d finally stop feeling like a glitch in the … Read more
I don’t know about you, but I’ve spent a lot of time lately feeling like my “healing” was just another job I was failing at. You know the vibe—journaling at 6 AM, ten minutes of breathwork, a podcast on shadow work during lunch, and then lying in bed wondering why I still feel like a … Read more
Beyond the Hustle: The Art of Finding the Gap Let’s be honest: if you spend five minutes looking for “online business ideas,” you’re going to see the same three things over and over. “Start a dropshipping store!” “Build an AI agency!” “Become a high-ticket closer!” It’s all the same recycled noise. It’s the “guru” loop—where … Read more
I think I’ve spent the last few years building a professional resume for a job I never actually applied for. “Her healing journey had stopped looking like a path to recovery and started looking suspiciously like a professional resume for a job she never applied for.” — Tye and Tie Man, that hit me like … Read more