Honestly, I’m tired of hearing my own voice recount the same grievances in a different tone of voice. Maybe the real power move isn’t “healing” the wound, but just… letting it be a wound. Stopping the fight with reality and just walking around with the cracks.
Because when you stop treating your life as a problem to be solved, you actually start living it.
For those of you still on that treadmill, you might want to check out why [the ‘healing journey’ is a treadmill](https://coachcomeback.com/category/the-violence-of-healing/) and how to actually step off.
> “We are no longer people moving through a difficult season; we are projects under permanent construction… The problem with the modern healing industry is that it has successfully rebranded “becoming a person” as “performing a task.”” [The Awakening Begins – The Healing Trap](https://theawakeningbegins.com/the-healing-trap-that-keeps-you-stuck)
It’s a loop. The solution to the exhaustion of healing is… more healing. A deeper layer. A hidden shadow. A past-life regression. We’ve turned our scars into currency, and the more “broken” we are, the more “work” we have to do.
Honestly, I’m tired of hearing my own voice recount the same grievances in a different tone of voice. Maybe the real power move isn’t “healing” the wound, but just… letting it be a wound. Stopping the fight with reality and just walking around with the cracks.
Because when you stop treating your life as a problem to be solved, you actually start living it.
For those of you still on that treadmill, you might want to check out why [the ‘healing journey’ is a treadmill](https://coachcomeback.com/category/the-violence-of-healing/) and how to actually step off.
That hit me hard. We’ve rebranded “existing” as “healing.” If you’re not actively processing something, you’re “stagnating.” If you’re not in a state of constant growth, you’re “avoiding your wounds.” It turns your life into a hospital ward where you’re both the patient and the nurse, and the shift never ends.
> “We are no longer people moving through a difficult season; we are projects under permanent construction… The problem with the modern healing industry is that it has successfully rebranded “becoming a person” as “performing a task.”” [The Awakening Begins – The Healing Trap](https://theawakeningbegins.com/the-healing-trap-that-keeps-you-stuck)
It’s a loop. The solution to the exhaustion of healing is… more healing. A deeper layer. A hidden shadow. A past-life regression. We’ve turned our scars into currency, and the more “broken” we are, the more “work” we have to do.
Honestly, I’m tired of hearing my own voice recount the same grievances in a different tone of voice. Maybe the real power move isn’t “healing” the wound, but just… letting it be a wound. Stopping the fight with reality and just walking around with the cracks.
Because when you stop treating your life as a problem to be solved, you actually start living it.
For those of you still on that treadmill, you might want to check out why [the ‘healing journey’ is a treadmill](https://coachcomeback.com/category/the-violence-of-healing/) and how to actually step off.
> “For me, “healing” just refers to avoidance of pain, to acknowledging that something is sick and broken, but the only motivation is to stop this from being sick and broken, instead of thinking out of the box and imagining how that thing can get better altogether.” [Henophilia – A Critique of “Healing”](https://blog.hermesloom.org/p/a-critique-of-healing)
That hit me hard. We’ve rebranded “existing” as “healing.” If you’re not actively processing something, you’re “stagnating.” If you’re not in a state of constant growth, you’re “avoiding your wounds.” It turns your life into a hospital ward where you’re both the patient and the nurse, and the shift never ends.
> “We are no longer people moving through a difficult season; we are projects under permanent construction… The problem with the modern healing industry is that it has successfully rebranded “becoming a person” as “performing a task.”” [The Awakening Begins – The Healing Trap](https://theawakeningbegins.com/the-healing-trap-that-keeps-you-stuck)
It’s a loop. The solution to the exhaustion of healing is… more healing. A deeper layer. A hidden shadow. A past-life regression. We’ve turned our scars into currency, and the more “broken” we are, the more “work” we have to do.
Honestly, I’m tired of hearing my own voice recount the same grievances in a different tone of voice. Maybe the real power move isn’t “healing” the wound, but just… letting it be a wound. Stopping the fight with reality and just walking around with the cracks.
Because when you stop treating your life as a problem to be solved, you actually start living it.
For those of you still on that treadmill, you might want to check out why [the ‘healing journey’ is a treadmill](https://coachcomeback.com/category/the-violence-of-healing/) and how to actually step off.
But here’s the thing: the more I “worked” on myself, the more I felt like a project under permanent construction. Like I was just a collection of symptoms waiting for a cure.
> “For me, “healing” just refers to avoidance of pain, to acknowledging that something is sick and broken, but the only motivation is to stop this from being sick and broken, instead of thinking out of the box and imagining how that thing can get better altogether.” [Henophilia – A Critique of “Healing”](https://blog.hermesloom.org/p/a-critique-of-healing)
That hit me hard. We’ve rebranded “existing” as “healing.” If you’re not actively processing something, you’re “stagnating.” If you’re not in a state of constant growth, you’re “avoiding your wounds.” It turns your life into a hospital ward where you’re both the patient and the nurse, and the shift never ends.
> “We are no longer people moving through a difficult season; we are projects under permanent construction… The problem with the modern healing industry is that it has successfully rebranded “becoming a person” as “performing a task.”” [The Awakening Begins – The Healing Trap](https://theawakeningbegins.com/the-healing-trap-that-keeps-you-stuck)
It’s a loop. The solution to the exhaustion of healing is… more healing. A deeper layer. A hidden shadow. A past-life regression. We’ve turned our scars into currency, and the more “broken” we are, the more “work” we have to do.
Honestly, I’m tired of hearing my own voice recount the same grievances in a different tone of voice. Maybe the real power move isn’t “healing” the wound, but just… letting it be a wound. Stopping the fight with reality and just walking around with the cracks.
Because when you stop treating your life as a problem to be solved, you actually start living it.
For those of you still on that treadmill, you might want to check out why [the ‘healing journey’ is a treadmill](https://coachcomeback.com/category/the-violence-of-healing/) and how to actually step off.
I’ve spent a good chunk of my life treating my personality like a bug-ridden piece of software that just needed the right patch. You know the vibe. You read the book, you do the shadow work, you track your triggers in a notebook that costs more than your shoes, and you wait for that magical moment where you finally “arrive” at being a healed person.
But here’s the thing: the more I “worked” on myself, the more I felt like a project under permanent construction. Like I was just a collection of symptoms waiting for a cure.
> “For me, “healing” just refers to avoidance of pain, to acknowledging that something is sick and broken, but the only motivation is to stop this from being sick and broken, instead of thinking out of the box and imagining how that thing can get better altogether.” [Henophilia – A Critique of “Healing”](https://blog.hermesloom.org/p/a-critique-of-healing)
That hit me hard. We’ve rebranded “existing” as “healing.” If you’re not actively processing something, you’re “stagnating.” If you’re not in a state of constant growth, you’re “avoiding your wounds.” It turns your life into a hospital ward where you’re both the patient and the nurse, and the shift never ends.
> “We are no longer people moving through a difficult season; we are projects under permanent construction… The problem with the modern healing industry is that it has successfully rebranded “becoming a person” as “performing a task.”” [The Awakening Begins – The Healing Trap](https://theawakeningbegins.com/the-healing-trap-that-keeps-you-stuck)
It’s a loop. The solution to the exhaustion of healing is… more healing. A deeper layer. A hidden shadow. A past-life regression. We’ve turned our scars into currency, and the more “broken” we are, the more “work” we have to do.
Honestly, I’m tired of hearing my own voice recount the same grievances in a different tone of voice. Maybe the real power move isn’t “healing” the wound, but just… letting it be a wound. Stopping the fight with reality and just walking around with the cracks.
Because when you stop treating your life as a problem to be solved, you actually start living it.
For those of you still on that treadmill, you might want to check out why [the ‘healing journey’ is a treadmill](https://coachcomeback.com/category/the-violence-of-healing/) and how to actually step off.
I’ve spent a good chunk of my life treating my personality like a bug-ridden piece of software that just needed the right patch. You know the vibe. You read the book, you do the shadow work, you track your triggers in a notebook that costs more than your shoes, and you wait for that magical moment where you finally “arrive” at being a healed person.
But here’s the thing: the more I “worked” on myself, the more I felt like a project under permanent construction. Like I was just a collection of symptoms waiting for a cure.
> “For me, “healing” just refers to avoidance of pain, to acknowledging that something is sick and broken, but the only motivation is to stop this from being sick and broken, instead of thinking out of the box and imagining how that thing can get better altogether.” [Henophilia – A Critique of “Healing”](https://blog.hermesloom.org/p/a-critique-of-healing)
That hit me hard. We’ve rebranded “existing” as “healing.” If you’re not actively processing something, you’re “stagnating.” If you’re not in a state of constant growth, you’re “avoiding your wounds.” It turns your life into a hospital ward where you’re both the patient and the nurse, and the shift never ends.
> “We are no longer people moving through a difficult season; we are projects under permanent construction… The problem with the modern healing industry is that it has successfully rebranded “becoming a person” as “performing a task.”” [The Awakening Begins – The Healing Trap](https://theawakeningbegins.com/the-healing-trap-that-keeps-you-stuck)
It’s a loop. The solution to the exhaustion of healing is… more healing. A deeper layer. A hidden shadow. A past-life regression. We’ve turned our scars into currency, and the more “broken” we are, the more “work” we have to do.
Honestly, I’m tired of hearing my own voice recount the same grievances in a different tone of voice. Maybe the real power move isn’t “healing” the wound, but just… letting it be a wound. Stopping the fight with reality and just walking around with the cracks.
Because when you stop treating your life as a problem to be solved, you actually start living it.
For those of you still on that treadmill, you might want to check out why [the ‘healing journey’ is a treadmill](https://coachcomeback.com/category/the-violence-of-healing/) and how to actually step off.
I’ve spent a good chunk of my life treating my personality like a bug-ridden piece of software that just needed the right patch. You know the vibe. You read the book, you do the shadow work, you track your triggers in a notebook that costs more than your shoes, and you wait for that magical moment where you finally “arrive” at being a healed person.
But here’s the thing: the more I “worked” on myself, the more I felt like a project under permanent construction. Like I was just a collection of symptoms waiting for a cure.
> “For me, “healing” just refers to avoidance of pain, to acknowledging that something is sick and broken, but the only motivation is to stop this from being sick and broken, instead of thinking out of the box and imagining how that thing can get better altogether.” [Henophilia – A Critique of “Healing”](https://blog.hermesloom.org/p/a-critique-of-healing)
That hit me hard. We’ve rebranded “existing” as “healing.” If you’re not actively processing something, you’re “stagnating.” If you’re not in a state of constant growth, you’re “avoiding your wounds.” It turns your life into a hospital ward where you’re both the patient and the nurse, and the shift never ends.
> “We are no longer people moving through a difficult season; we are projects under permanent construction… The problem with the modern healing industry is that it has successfully rebranded “becoming a person” as “performing a task.”” [The Awakening Begins – The Healing Trap](https://theawakeningbegins.com/the-healing-trap-that-keeps-you-stuck)
It’s a loop. The solution to the exhaustion of healing is… more healing. A deeper layer. A hidden shadow. A past-life regression. We’ve turned our scars into currency, and the more “broken” we are, the more “work” we have to do.
Honestly, I’m tired of hearing my own voice recount the same grievances in a different tone of voice. Maybe the real power move isn’t “healing” the wound, but just… letting it be a wound. Stopping the fight with reality and just walking around with the cracks.
Because when you stop treating your life as a problem to be solved, you actually start living it.
For those of you still on that treadmill, you might want to check out why [the ‘healing journey’ is a treadmill](https://coachcomeback.com/category/the-violence-of-healing/) and how to actually step off.
I’ve spent a good chunk of my life treating my personality like a bug-ridden piece of software that just needed the right patch. You know the vibe. You read the book, you do the shadow work, you track your triggers in a notebook that costs more than your shoes, and you wait for that magical moment where you finally “arrive” at being a healed person.
But here’s the thing: the more I “worked” on myself, the more I felt like a project under permanent construction. Like I was just a collection of symptoms waiting for a cure.
> “For me, “healing” just refers to avoidance of pain, to acknowledging that something is sick and broken, but the only motivation is to stop this from being sick and broken, instead of thinking out of the box and imagining how that thing can get better altogether.” [Henophilia – A Critique of “Healing”](https://blog.hermesloom.org/p/a-critique-of-healing)
That hit me hard. We’ve rebranded “existing” as “healing.” If you’re not actively processing something, you’re “stagnating.” If you’re not in a state of constant growth, you’re “avoiding your wounds.” It turns your life into a hospital ward where you’re both the patient and the nurse, and the shift never ends.
> “We are no longer people moving through a difficult season; we are projects under permanent construction… The problem with the modern healing industry is that it has successfully rebranded “becoming a person” as “performing a task.”” [The Awakening Begins – The Healing Trap](https://theawakeningbegins.com/the-healing-trap-that-keeps-you-stuck)
It’s a loop. The solution to the exhaustion of healing is… more healing. A deeper layer. A hidden shadow. A past-life regression. We’ve turned our scars into currency, and the more “broken” we are, the more “work” we have to do.
Honestly, I’m tired of hearing my own voice recount the same grievances in a different tone of voice. Maybe the real power move isn’t “healing” the wound, but just… letting it be a wound. Stopping the fight with reality and just walking around with the cracks.
Because when you stop treating your life as a problem to be solved, you actually start living it.
For those of you still on that treadmill, you might want to check out why [the ‘healing journey’ is a treadmill](https://coachcomeback.com/category/the-violence-of-healing/) and how to actually step off.